I'm a romany gypsy ............ why do ppl have a problem wid me?

i have to small children,i'm married my husband pays tax's!!!!! so why is it that if i'm in a shop and my 2 year old throws a tantrum or my 1 year old starts crying or i tell my girl off do ppl look, point and whisper I've got no different then eney aver human being in the world!!!!! just becoz i look a bit different on the out side ppl judge me ???